Not unusually (for me), I’ve had a nagging little thing whirling around my head for quite a time now. I’ve spent ages trying to think up the correct plan of action, but as yet I’ve drawn a blank, so I thought it was probably time to share…
I love having this blog, I love to blog (not that you’d know that if you look at the amount of posts this year!!!), I aslo love all the people I’ve got to know through having this blog, but and this is a really big but, I hate the fact that I can’t share this blog with 99% of the people I know. And there are a lot of people I know who’d be genuinely interested to know that I do in fact blog. There’d also be loads who wouldn’t even know what a blog is, but I’m not overly concerned with them 
I think if this was purely a ‘tranny’ site (which it did initially start out as) then there’d be no question of wanting to share this site with everyone, but as I mentioned when I gave this site a face-lift recently, the tranny bit is actually now quite a small part of this site; my last ‘tranny’ post was on 20th December 2008 
And all this has been niggling away at me for ages now, as I’ve been weighing up the options…
I could completely remove any trannyness from this site… Which in effect would be like returning to the closet and hiding, which I so don’t want to do.
I could have a ‘boy’ blog (which I have already made)… But then what happens with this site? Do I then turn this site into a pure tranny zone with nothing else (I’d really rather not ).
And there lies my dilema. I want a blog that I can share with non tranny friends & family, I don’t really want to abandon this site and I definitely don’t want to lose friends from this site. I did initially think that I’d get the non-tranny site up and running and just post non-tranny stuff onto both sites and keep the tranny stuff for here, but then Becky’s PROBO ( ‘Potential Route Of Being Outed’) rule comes firmly into play… I have two websites with exactly the same blog posts on them (I’m guessing a Google search would pick them both up pretty close to each other), the site layouts are almost identical (I’m lazy!!!) only one has pictures of a rather blokey looking girl on it… Hey hang on a minute it’s the same person!!! The PROBO is frighteningly high (or low, I’m not sure how the scale goes???).
And that’s pretty much where I’m at…
Tags: blog, dilema, tranny...
Aug 21, 2009: 
By Becky on Apr 6, 2009
Tricky innit? I’ve been having similar thoughts. Let me know if you have any brainwaves. :)
By joanna on Apr 7, 2009
is very tricky. It’d be easier to merge the two worlds.. but for now that’s really not an option. So two facebook and flickr accounts, two blogs etc etc.
By Steph Angel on Apr 8, 2009
Tricky… Indeed it is.
I’ve now leapt straight in and I’m now juggling with the tranny & non tranny blog world. Steph’s IROBO (Inevitable route of being outed) rule is now dangerously in play and it will only be a matter of time
By Gabriela Julie Budd on Apr 11, 2009
What is the worst thing that can happen if you ARE outed?
A lot of people may piss take? They will get bored after a while and pick on someone else.
Loved ones will find out? Maybe the pain that causes will be balanced by you no longer having a sense of shame of having to hide everything and lie.
Losing friends? Would they be true friends?
People stare at you in the street? Go up to them and say hello/ I’m not the only tranny in the village- this is the 21st century/ Get a life.
You get beaten up every day for two weeks as you are about to arrive home? No pain- no gain.
By Emily Grae on May 14, 2009
So, it’s been over a month. Have you decided what to do? I’m still with the two blogs… two facebook accounts… two flickrs… btw, do you go on facebook? I’ve been so damned lazy lately I haven’t blogged anywhere, and spend most of my web-social time on facebook….
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